My name is Cindy and I'm Josh's 1st x-wife. Being the first x-wife I know more about Josh then his other wives, girlfriend or other little things (what ever he's calling them today), because I was the first x-wife I know a lot about Josh and the way that he thinks and would like people to think about him. I have been here from the beginning and know everything there is to know about. Josh was very open and honest with me in the way I know that he has never been with anyone.
Lately there has been a lot said about Josh and his connection with Vianna. I would like to tell you all that Josh is his own person and responsible for his own actions. Josh really doesn't care about anyone, but himself i.e.
What can Josh get out of this?
How can Josh get out of taking care of this?
And lots more go through Josh's head.
Josh has made himself who he is; no one else is responsible for Josh's actions, but Josh. Josh knows that his mother has raised him better then that. If you sit down and talk to him about growing up, he knows that his parents didn't raise him to walk out on his kids, wife or family the way that he has. Harry always has been there for his kids. Harry made sure to be there for all the holidays that he could. Vianna has been there for him also, she has also been there for the grandchildren. Vianna is always the first to lend a helping hand. I know for a fact that Vianna has tried to see all of her grandchildren and help the mother's support them when Josh hasn't. When ever I have need anything for my son and haven't gotten child support Vianna has been there to help me and my son. I know that she is that way with all her grandchildren. Vianna will help in away possible. All she asks is to be able to spend sometime with her grandchildren. I have asked Vianna, Bobbie and Brandi that when my son is with them that Josh has nothing to do with him. They have made sure that this happens.
Because Josh is the way he is my son wants nothing to do with him, but he wants everything to do with Vianna, Guy, Bobbie, Brandi and the rest of the family.
Please remember that Josh has to be held responsible for what he has done, not anyone else. He has been an adult for over 11 years now. What he does is on his shoulders, he has made the choices that he has, no matter how much his family has tried to get him to do the right thing. Josh will be Josh, but that is not the son that Vianna has raised him to be. I know that his other x-wives have tried to hold Vianna accountable for Josh's actions, as I have stated before Josh is an adult and he has made these choices not Vianna.
Vianna has cried many times over that Josh has done to his kids, wives and family. She can not understand why Josh has done the things that he has done. She has begged him to do right by his kids and x-wives.
Vianna will help her grandchildren and Josh's x-wives in anyone she can.
I was dating Josh at the time that Vianna had cancer. I watched her go through that healing process. I watched Josh take care of her through it also. I remember the day that Josh called and told him that she had cured herself. Josh was so happy that his mother had cured herself and that he wouldn't have to live with out her.
You can be cured if you believe that you can be healed. Vianna has healed me and my son a lot; I don't know what to do without her.
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"Being the first x-wife I know more about Josh then his other wives... because I was the first x-wife I know a lot about Josh and the way that he thinks and would like people to think about him.... I have been here from the beginning and know everything there is to know about. Josh was very open and honest with me in the way I know that he has never been with anyone." You're kidding right? ‘Cause I forgot that you were there with Josh & me when we stayed up talking at all hours of the night for 7 years. "If you sit down and talk to him about growing up, he knows that his parents didn't raise him to walk out on his kids, wife or family the way that he has." His mom has been married 4 times. His dad cheated on his mom & left. He’s married to someone who cheated on him and got pregnant. Do you really think they give a crap about what he’s done?
ReplyDelete"I know for a fact that Vianna has tried to see all of her grandchildren and help the mother's support them when Josh hasn't." You don't know a d*mn thing about the truth when it comes to Vianna and my children. You know what you have been TOLD, Cindy. Were you there for the past 7 years? You show up to get cash. Just be honest.
"When ever I have need anything for my son and haven't gotten child support Vianna has been there to help me and my son." See this statement... this is exactly why Josh gets away with everything he does. Because instead you decided the best way to deal with the situation was to have Vianna give you some money. You’re needy. You need attention. Period. They rolled their eyes more times than you know when you came by. “I got stuck talking to Cindy again.” “All she does is talk about being pregnant.” Should I continue?
"All she asks is to be able to spend sometime with her grandchildren." True. She asks that. But does she really want to see them? No. She does it when people can see her with them. She does it dramatically. She introduced my kids to her classes more times than I can count, and minutes later would walk right past them.
"Please remember that Josh has to be held responsible for what he has done, not anyone else." Guess what, Cindy? You don't know a fraction of what he's done. So when you make a blanket statement like this, you should know what you're talking about. No one is holding him responsible. No one. His family only covers for him. And it’s NOT TRUE. If you know of a crime, do you sit back silently? Actually, you probably would. You'd probably say it's not your problem if other people are being cheated on, stolen from, abandoned, conned out of their retirement... try asking what really happened. I've got more documentation than any of them know about. They're all a part of covering for him.
"I know that his other x-wives have tried to hold Vianna accountable for Josh's actions, as I have stated before Josh is an adult and he has made these choices not Vianna." I will literally be sick if one more person takes these same words out of her mouth and uses them as their own. This is ALWAYS the story. NO ONE HAS EVER SAID THAT VIANNA IS TO BLAME. But she IS responsible for HER actions. Covering for him, sending him money, hiding evidence… that IS on her.When he got caught doing seriously horrible things he was TEACHING AT THE THETAHEALING INSTITUTE OF KNOWLEDGE. Gee... I think if I fumble through my memory, that belongs to VIANNA. She KNEW of his affair. She knew that I DIDN'T know. She let the whore teach with him right there in front of her class. She welcomed that trash right in to the family, while her "grandchild" was trying to grow inside ME. Tell me how much she's not a part of it again. TRY ME.
ReplyDelete"She has begged him to do right by his kids and x-wives." Here's a little something for you to learn, maybe you could teach this to your kids... ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. She can say all day that she's begged him to do this or that. Want to know what she said to me within days of him leaving? "But he's so happy, Lindsey." Um. Are you kidding me? My children were up screaming because their father walked out... and the response is that he's happy? That his whore can teach in her building? That she can have private meetings with the whore to "get to know her" within a week of him abandoning his family? Sorry girl, you're so wrong it's actually comical.
"You can be cured if you believe that you can be healed." Hey- pssst- guess what? The Devil can heal people, too. Didya know that?
Seriously. I feel sorry for you and how you're so blind. The things that Josh said about Candace weren't true, but everything he said about you seems to be dead on, which is pretty sad for a compulsive liar.
Everyone keeps saying "God knows the truth". For once, truth! Should the heavens open tonight and all of our deeds be known, guess who will stand up proudly knowing I was honest? Me. You're defending the wrong people, Cindy. My kids are the victims here, and yet you defend Josh's family as if anything is about them at all. ½ siblings to your child, & you defend the ones who abandoned them. No empathy for us- you instantly jumped to protecting Vianna & the rest of the family. You're selfish & don't want to cut off the money supply. I’m not about money. I am a mom first, & I must lead by example.
I did my best for these past many years. I tried so hard to see the good, because my heart was in it until the end. I went home crying every time we had a family function because of the extremely mean things that were said to me and my children, and who defended us? No one. I have thanked Bobbi & Brandy & Vianna more times than you have ANY idea about and THEY KNOW THAT. I thanked & thanked & thanked... I had truly good times with them. Some of the best laughs I've had were with them. They paid for me getting my hair done & helped me actually feel like a "girl" not just a mom!! They know all of this. But what it came down to was that they protect Josh over me and my children. And that, Cindy, is why they won't be allowed to enjoy my children any longer. Because the longer I'm away, the more they'll lie about me & the more they'll say how horrible I was.
So be it.
I will live my life knowing I did the right things. What can all of them say? And you?
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